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Sex Before Kissing

A new and dangerous social paradigm

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While sex without kissing for the most part throughout human history has been the prerogative of the soldier/rapist who were typically all men and sex workers who are typically women, sex without kissing was once very rare. A kiss is coming together in intimacy in many forms, it’s a declaration of acceptance, trust and affection, and often times used to convey a progression towards deeper intimacy.

Of course there are times when lovers come together with such intense desire that they forgo kissing, but the increasing openness of society in terms of knowledge that is often distorted, and the ease of the Internet that is saturated with Continue reading Sex Before Kissing

A History of Lomi Lomi

An ancient art for modern times

The Lomi Lomi style of holistic bodywork is often referred to as ‘the Rolls Royce of massage’ that’s best known for the deeply relaxing long strokes that sweep the body from tip to toe, over and under, massaging two areas simultaneously and fully engaging the senses so that stress evaporates. As well as being deeply healing, this massage style can also be a divine or transcendental experience.

While Lomi Lomi or Kahuna style massage is thought of as having its roots in Hawaii and other Pacific Islands, it’s actual beginnings were likely bought from India as Hindu’s have been sailing the Pacific for thousands of years. This massage has many modern counterparts; in the

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Tales of Infidelity

A wife’s indulgences part one

Introduction: This is a lengthy story about life, infidelity, casual sex and relationships that takes place in the southern United States. The story centres around Alyssa who on occasion goes into pornographic detail as she describes her experiences. Then she analyses those experiences and develops a philosophical line that puts her behaviour and her lifestyle into a holistic perspective. The first few pages which anyone can read provided taste, but as the language and the accompanying images become much more graphic, membership is required.

Hi there, I’ve known for several years that quite a few acquaintances have been sleeping around outside of their marriages and it’s pretty hard to conceal because people gossip and brag.

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Ambers Mum

Down but not out in the UK

I was married when I was at 18 mostly because I had to and I gave birth to my daughter Amber when was 19. The experience was enjoyable except that my partner Steve seemed to be forever off chasing other girls. He was always a bit wild but he began to settle down after Amber was born and managed to hold on to regular work.

Our relationship was always rocky and we argued about almost everything although I loved making up afterwards. I didn’t mind that he spent more time playing sport and hanging out with his workmates because it made life much easier but I really missed the sex that we used

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Empowerment for Men

Empower your Penis and your Love Life

There are always moments of brain fade – but men must get it together and take charge

Listed here are natural herbal products recommended to help overcome diminished libido, erectile dysfunction, impotency and premature ejaculation.

Libido Boosters; products to increase your desire for sex and to help improve bedroom performance.

So don’t just lay there like a stunned mullet! Show her you can lead and that you have what it takes.

While life can be a bitch sometimes, the bedroom is where many people find their greatest pleasure so as well as mastering the art of communication and the mechanics of having sex, the next biggest step is lasting the distance.

Most

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Tales of Infidelity - 4

A wife’s indulgences part four

From part three: After an evening making love to my friend and neighbour Sally and then going to bed with my husband who promptly fell asleep, I lay awake thinking about sex and relationships, or more specifically what I wanted from life. The strong physical sex I got from Sally’s husband Jerry really seemed to put my body and mind in order, but it had also awoken a desire to have that regularly although unfortunately, Jerry was only available once or twice a week and my two intimate liaison’s with Sally were sweet and lovely, they were less important.

I reviewed my interaction with my neighbours aware that I’d lusted after a

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Sensual Massage

The gentleness of touch

Before getting into this touchy subject, please remember that we experience the world through our senses and our entire perception of life depends on our sense perception. In other words, everything we see, hear, touch or taste is conveyed through our senses to our minds for interpretation and sensual massage increases our ability to perceive.

Our senses are those of vision, touch, hearing, taste and smell. Just think, we exercise our bodies so that they perform more efficiently. We do mental exercises to keep our minds sharp and alert so why not sensual massage to enhance sensitivity?

Sensual massage is generally a soft massage over the entirety of the body that stimulates all the sense receptors

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Drugs and society

Why I the Reason?

Humans have been using drugs throughout all known history. Almost every culture tested the properties of almost every plant in substance within its domain. Some plants /substances produced fatal results, but some produced therapeutic results and became medicines while others produced results that we refer to as ‘mind altering’.

In hunter gatherer communities, one of two people would take a drug and to gain insight as to where to find food, or solutions to the problems they were experiencing. Often this person was the Shaman who was not always a male in every culture.

The use of drugs like cannabis, mescaline and ayawasca were tools for those special occasions as was alcohol. But it was alcohol

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The Healing Power of Orgasm

Fact or fiction?

There is no general consensus as to the reason we orgasm or any agreement as to what it actually does. We know that it floods the body with some feelgood chemicals and that it’s a deeper sexual experience which helps to facilitate social bonds.

There is some debate as to whether or not the male ejaculation counts as an orgasm or if it is simply a release mechanism for accumulated stress, but there is no doubt that orgasms are very important for women, so much so that in the 1700s and 1800s, masturbation became a commonly used treatment for what men called women’s hysteria.

There is no doubt that life can be very frustrating and good sex

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The Down Side of Pleasure

A look at addiction

Addiction is a compulsive condition that reduces a persons ability to function as a ‘normal person’ within their society. In other words, when a person become addicted to a drug or an activity, they are unable to fully control their behaviour.

The reason that people become addicted is that they are not fully in control of their lives and that they are experiencing aspects of the lives as being unpleasant. When they find a drug or activity that is so pleasurable that they temporarily forget the unpleasant things in their lives, pleasurable things begin to take precedent in their life. The actual process of addiction is subtle and most people don’t realise that they are

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