Essential knowledge for life
Human sexuality is an ongoing exploration as we are creative creatures, but sexuality is governed by ignorance, religions, politics, cultural and community beliefs. Sex pervades our lives at every level, it is widely used to sell products and services as well as to win influence or impose control in many spheres of life.
On one level, sex is just a simple act to cause impregnation and we are biologically programmed to do this, yet due to social controls, many are confused about relating and sex. Because so many misunderstand relationships, relationship failures, rape and other coercions are a huge social and criminal problem.
At a personal level knowing one’s body is vital and this knowledge is
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Tell it the way it is
Periodically in the media this week, discussions about sex education for children re-emerge. Those who consider themselves enlightened want to tell kids the facts of life as they really are while the moral opposition wants kids to remain forever in ignorance until that time comes when they fumble in the dark and are left suffering various forms of anxiety.
In terms of statistics, these prove that children who are well educated about sex are more likely to put off sex until they are older and practice safe sex, they are also much less likely to get pregnant so it seems really strange that the moralists want to raise their kids in ignorance and expose
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Two women had been having a friendly lunch when the subject turned to sex. “You know, John and I have been having some sexual problems”, Linda told her friend. “That’s amazing!” Mary replied, “So have Tom and I.”
“We’re thinking of going to a sex therapist”, said Linda.
“Oh, we could never do that! We’d be too embarrassed!” responded Mary. “But after you go, will you please tell me how it went?”
Several weeks passed, and the two friends met for lunch again.
“So how did the sex therapy work out, Linda?” Mary asked.
“Things couldn’t be better,” Linda exclaimed. “We began with a physical exam, and afterwards the doctor said he was certain he could help us. He
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My husband is at work but his brother is hitting on me
Dear Dianna, my name is Roxanne from California, USA. I’ve been married to Scott for two years and I’m just about to turn 23. To make ends meet he works really long hours but so far I’ve only been able to get some casual part-time work which is fine because we’re doing okay.
But it’s almost 2 months ago now that Scott’s brother Brett came to stay with us after losing his job. His situation was desperate enough that is only choices were to stay with us or live on the streets. Initially Scott was indifferent to him but after a word from his mother, he finally invited
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The experience and feedback
Hi there, I won’t tell you my name but I’ve been married for five years and having decided to put off having kids until after I turned 30 we’d both been working hard to build our dream home. We hadn’t gone too far overboard in terms of debt but I’m sure this is one of the major factors that’s been causing strife in our relationship.
In those first few years of courtship and marriage we both had good paying jobs and a great deal of confidence, so we had sex often and everywhere, but it seemed like that was all too good to last because of been reduced to a part-time job and although Simon is
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Anecdotal short stories
Introduction: There are estimates that say about 2 – 5% of brothers and sisters have physically intimate relationships for varying periods of time, (see refs below). In some countries this is highly illegal but children are learning to become responsible adults and sex is part of that learning curve. Therefore the most common response around the world is for their parents to gently chastise them without involving the law.
These three stories are examples of what can happen but it is not the intention to moralise, argue with the law or justify this behaviour. This behaviour is a fact of life that need not be harshly judged and children who are found out may need appropriate guidance
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A girl who enjoys sex
Hey there, this world is really one fucked-up place but I have a story that has never quite made sense. A few years back I picked up this girl hitchhiking out of Canberra and like she was wearing an open little jacket showing her tits but I managed to put away my lust and we had a really nice conversation, its like we just clicked.
She said she wasn’t going to meet anyone and had no place to stay but wanted to spend time in Sydney so I said that she was welcome to crash on my couch which she accepted. Now one of my mates had invited me to a barbecue so we drove
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Anal Sex – Shall I or Shan’t I?
Hi Dianna, I’ve recently started allowing my boyfriend have anal sex with me and one once he actually gets inside me, after the initial discomfort while is not exactly unpleasant, it’s not exactly great either so what’s the big deal and should I continue?
Thanks for writing Veronica, for some people anal sex is a really big thing and for others it’s not. You need plenty of lube and in terms of penetration, it’s somehow contrary to nature and takes a little practice to relax those sphincter muscles and sometimes the urge to push out.
For most women, this form of sex is something they ‘allow’ rather than enjoy as there are
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The art of coexistence
Sex along with eating is one of the most natural of human activities. Our distant ancestors wore no clothing, they would have witnessed animals mating and discovered that sex was pleasurable. The pleasure that comes from having sex is natures incentive to ensure that we perpetuate our species and without that pleasure, we would likely have become extinct long ago.
Men and women are almost like two distinct species and if it was not for our need to reproduce, it seems probable as some thinkers say, that men would have killed all the women simply because they are stronger and have never understood them. Mind you women cannot understand men either, but for the most part
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A wife’s indulgences part two
From part one Hi there, you recall that I sent you the story of my first sexual foray outside of my marriage and I have decided not to sit in judgement on myself over this. I have indulged in another three wildly exciting sexual experiences with my neighbour Jerry and I also had a nice long chat with his wife Sally who knows everything, well that I’ve been fucking her husband but not all the details. Amazingly she approves and she’s shared stories of some of her conquests.
The talk with Sally put things into perspective quite a bit, and while I’ve had great fun with Jerry, I don’t have any desire for him
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A wife’s indulgences part four
From part three: After an evening making love to my friend and neighbour Sally and then going to bed with my husband who promptly fell asleep, I lay awake thinking about sex and relationships, or more specifically what I wanted from life. The strong physical sex I got from Sally’s husband Jerry really seemed to put my body and mind in order, but it had also awoken a desire to have that regularly although unfortunately, Jerry was only available once or twice a week and my two intimate liaison’s with Sally were sweet and lovely, they were less important.
I reviewed my interaction with my neighbours aware that I’d lusted after a
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