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Incest Between Siblings

Anecdotal short stories

Introduction: There are estimates that say about 2 – 5% of brothers and sisters have physically intimate relationships for varying periods of time, (see refs below). In some countries this is highly illegal but children are learning to become responsible adults and sex is part of that learning curve. Therefore the most common response around the world is for their parents to gently chastise them without involving the law.

These three stories are examples of what can happen but it is not the intention to moralise, argue with the law or justify this behaviour. This behaviour is a fact of life that need not be harshly judged and children who are found out may need appropriate guidance

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Boys toy

A girl who enjoys sex

Hey there, this world is really one fucked-up place but I have a story that has never quite made sense. A few years back I picked up this girl hitchhiking out of Canberra and like she was wearing an open little jacket showing her tits but I managed to put away my lust and we had a really nice conversation, its like we just clicked.

She said she wasn’t going to meet anyone and had no place to stay but wanted to spend time in Sydney so I said that she was welcome to crash on my couch which she accepted. Now one of my mates had invited me to a barbecue so we drove

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Sex Addiction

A psychological ploy to confuse

Opinions vary and experts disagree as to what sex addiction is. The moral righteous may consider sex beyond the need to procreate abnormal, the average married couple may have sex every few days which helps maintain relationships. But healthy individuals may also have sex two or three times per day which may seem unusual, but its not abnormal.

Human beings are designed for sex.

Like other apes, humans don’t just have sex for reproduction, we have sex for social recreation and bonding. How much sex we have varies greatly between individuals and is a reflection of lifestyle, education and health.

Unfortunately human sexuality has become a commodity that is widely traded, moralists and experts have

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Relationship Q & A

Anal Sex – Shall I or Shan’t I?

Leakage can be embarrassing

Hi Dianna, I’ve recently started allowing my boyfriend have anal sex with me and one once he actually gets inside me, after the initial discomfort while is not exactly unpleasant, it’s not exactly great either so what’s the big deal and should I continue?

Thanks for writing Veronica, for some people anal sex is a really big thing and for others it’s not. You need plenty of lube and in terms of penetration, it’s somehow contrary to nature and takes a little practice to relax those sphincter muscles and sometimes the urge to push out.

For most women, this form of sex is something they ‘allow’ rather

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Sex in the Ancient World

The art of coexistence

Sex along with eating is one of the most natural of human activities. Our distant ancestors wore no clothing, they would have witnessed animals mating and discovered that sex was pleasurable. The pleasure that comes from having sex is natures incentive to ensure that we perpetuate our species and without that pleasure, we would likely have become extinct long ago.

Men and women are almost like two distinct species and if it was not for our need to reproduce, it seems probable as some thinkers say, that men would have killed all the women simply because they are stronger and have never understood them. Mind you women cannot understand men either, but for the most part

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Foreplay

The art of safe non penetrative excitement

Foreplay is an important part of dating and precursor to sex that does not necessarily have to conclude with sex. Typically it involves pleasant conversation and some flirting where both desire intimacy and possibly sex.

The conversation and flirting as a prelude to the foreplay which should flow on naturally as gentle and playful touching. The touching does not necessarily involve touching breast or genitals and you can do for there are no written rules. In fact this is so difficult to describe, very few books have been written on the subject and those that have seemed really weird.

Needless to say this proceed from flirtatious to tactile behaviour, there must be sufficient

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Sex Talk

A conversation recorded

My sister Ciara and her friend Sandy were a little bored as they sat watching the rain running down the windows. I’d just stacked fire and I think they’d forgotten I was still there doing some homework, but it was hard not to hear what they were saying and this is some of their conversation.

Sandy: what is it about men Ciara? You know I quite like Alfie, in many ways he’s really nice and I feel strongly attracted to him but he’s really useless at sex.

Ciara: unfortunately I kinda know what you mean because most of the boys I’ve been with just please themselves and sometimes I just can’t be bothered having sex because I’m

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Sasha's Confession Continued

The joy of student life

Hello again Diana, a few months has passed since my last narrative and my life continues to get more interesting. At school on doing well academically however since spring break of discarded most of my former friends and as much as I sometimes want to make a statement by being provocative, I have been dressing down and hanging out with more nerdy types with whom I can have more meaningful conversations. I also hang out fairly regularly with my stoner friends because out of everyone, the make more sense that there seems to have no real solutions for society’s problems other than dropping out. You may recall I went to a swingers party with Bill

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Relationship Q & A

Questions To Dianna

Hi there, Kayla and I are not married but we’ve been living together for four years and we’re just crazy about each other and love sex. Even though we are both holding down jobs we still manage to have sex two or three times a day. Sometimes we even meet for lunch and have a quickie in a bathroom and we’ve been known to have sex other public places although few people seem to care and others just give us lecherous or jealous looks.

But there are a couple of things that bother me in the first is that I’m really attracted to another couple of girls who are returning that interest and there are always a

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The Healing Power of Orgasm

Fact or fiction?

There is no general consensus as to the reason we orgasm or any agreement as to what it actually does. We know that it floods the body with some feelgood chemicals and that it’s a deeper sexual experience which helps to facilitate social bonds.

There is some debate as to whether or not the male ejaculation counts as an orgasm or if it is simply a release mechanism for accumulated stress, but there is no doubt that orgasms are very important for women, so much so that in the 1700s and 1800s, masturbation became a commonly used treatment for what men called women’s hysteria.

There is no doubt that life can be very frustrating and good sex

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