Question time with Dianna
In this corner of the Internet Dianna will review your questions about sex and relationships and give feedback posted on site.
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Tell it the way it is
Periodically in the media this week, discussions about sex education for children re-emerge. Those who consider themselves enlightened want to tell kids the facts of life as they really are while the moral opposition wants kids to remain forever in ignorance until that time comes when they fumble in the dark and are left suffering various forms of anxiety.
In terms of statistics, these prove that children who are well educated about sex are more likely to put off sex until they are older and practice safe sex, they are also much less likely to get pregnant so it seems really strange that the moralists want to raise their kids in ignorance and expose
Continue reading Osho on Sex Ed for Kids
My husband is at work but his brother is hitting on me
Dear Dianna, my name is Roxanne from California, USA. I’ve been married to Scott for two years and I’m just about to turn 23. To make ends meet he works really long hours but so far I’ve only been able to get some casual part-time work which is fine because we’re doing okay.
But it’s almost 2 months ago now that Scott’s brother Brett came to stay with us after losing his job. His situation was desperate enough that is only choices were to stay with us or live on the streets. Initially Scott was indifferent to him but after a word from his mother, he finally invited
Continue reading Relationships and Fidelity
The experience and feedback
Hi there, I won’t tell you my name but I’ve been married for five years and having decided to put off having kids until after I turned 30 we’d both been working hard to build our dream home. We hadn’t gone too far overboard in terms of debt but I’m sure this is one of the major factors that’s been causing strife in our relationship.
In those first few years of courtship and marriage we both had good paying jobs and a great deal of confidence, so we had sex often and everywhere, but it seemed like that was all too good to last because of been reduced to a part-time job and although Simon is
Continue reading Tales of infidelity
Anecdotal short stories
Introduction: There are estimates that say about 2 – 5% of brothers and sisters have physically intimate relationships for varying periods of time, (see refs below). In some countries this is highly illegal but children are learning to become responsible adults and sex is part of that learning curve. Therefore the most common response around the world is for their parents to gently chastise them without involving the law.
These three stories are examples of what can happen but it is not the intention to moralise, argue with the law or justify this behaviour. This behaviour is a fact of life that need not be harshly judged and children who are found out may need appropriate guidance
Continue reading Incest Between Siblings
A girl who enjoys sex
Hey there, this world is really one fucked-up place but I have a story that has never quite made sense. A few years back I picked up this girl hitchhiking out of Canberra and like she was wearing an open little jacket showing her tits but I managed to put away my lust and we had a really nice conversation, its like we just clicked.
She said she wasn’t going to meet anyone and had no place to stay but wanted to spend time in Sydney so I said that she was welcome to crash on my couch which she accepted. Now one of my mates had invited me to a barbecue so we drove
Continue reading Boys Toy or Wise Woman?
Anal Sex – Shall I or Shan’t I?
Hi Dianna, I’ve recently started allowing my boyfriend have anal sex with me and one once he actually gets inside me, after the initial discomfort while is not exactly unpleasant, it’s not exactly great either so what’s the big deal and should I continue?
Thanks for writing Veronica, for some people anal sex is a really big thing and for others it’s not. You need plenty of lube and in terms of penetration, it’s somehow contrary to nature and takes a little practice to relax those sphincter muscles and sometimes the urge to push out.
For most women, this form of sex is something they ‘allow’ rather than enjoy as there are
Continue reading Relationship Q & A
The joy of student life
Hello again Diana, a few months has passed since my last narrative and my life continues to get more interesting. At school on doing well academically however since spring break of discarded most of my former friends and as much as I sometimes want to make a statement by being provocative, I have been dressing down and hanging out with more nerdy types with whom I can have more meaningful conversations. I also hang out fairly regularly with my stoner friends because out of everyone, the make more sense that there seems to have no real solutions for society’s problems other than dropping out. You may recall I went to a swingers party with Bill
Continue reading Sasha’s Confession Continued
Questions To Dianna
Hi there, Kayla and I are not married but we’ve been living together for four years and we’re just crazy about each other and love sex. Even though we are both holding down jobs we still manage to have sex two or three times a day. Sometimes we even meet for lunch and have a quickie in a bathroom and we’ve been known to have sex other public places although few people seem to care and others just give us lecherous or jealous looks.
But there are a couple of things that bother me in the first is that I’m really attracted to another couple of girls who are returning that interest and there are always a
Continue reading Relationship Q & A
Spring break at Lake Havasu
Spring Break was still four months away when all the talk and planning started. I wasn’t particularly interested, but as the week came closer I realised that if I wanted to be “in” I had to participate. I also came to realise that most of my friends and peers really disliked their lives and they couldn’t wait to get drunk and party like there was no tomorrow.
I talked to Mum and she said that while I could choose not to go, it was a rite of passage that I should probably go through with although I didn’t have to do anything disagreeable. So really, Mum was no help at all and rather than
Continue reading Did I Want To?
A guide to giving him oral sex
Penises come in many shapes and sizes, so the idea is to experiment.
Oral sex is an activity to be indulged in by lovers and sex workers, so how do you go about sucking his cock? Do you want to? Of course if he indulges you with his mouth & tongue to help you to more wet & wanting.. or even an orgasm or… you must do the same for him.
The penis is a remarkable piece of anatomy, the tip that can look like Darth Vada’s helmet (star wars) is very, very sensitive, in fact as sensitive as your clitoris. So you do have to avoid using your teeth &
Continue reading How to Give Head