Dealing with men and trying to find one that’ll do
Hi there, I’m sending you some of my insights and experiences because I enjoyed some of your posts and your readers might learn something. Anyhow, I guess I’m pretty much just an average girl from Lancashire, my parents tried to teach me manners and I gotta admit that they come in handy sometimes.
I’ve got no great expectations in life and like most people, I want to have fun and maybe a family one day. My sex life began when I was 13, I went to a party, the boys got me drunk and I ended up having sex with two of them. It wasn’t all that nice, but it
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The experience and feedback
Hi there, I won’t tell you my name but I’ve been married for five years and having decided to put off having kids until after I turned 30 we’d both been working hard to build our dream home. We hadn’t gone too far overboard in terms of debt but I’m sure this is one of the major factors that’s been causing strife in our relationship.
In those first few years of courtship and marriage we both had good paying jobs and a great deal of confidence, so we had sex often and everywhere, but it seemed like that was all too good to last because of been reduced to a part-time job and although Simon is
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If we look back through history, far back we have the hunter-gatherer tribes where men and women were more equal than the ideal many of us seek today. With the development of agriculture and larger societies, women became more subservient through into the present day where women are fighting for equity in many arenas of life where it’s permitted.
Is There A Perfect Relationship
“It seems probable that if men and women did not need each other to perpetuate our species, women would have been exterminated aeons ago because men are physically stronger and more reactive.” ~ Sadhguru
In many countries we have the idealised “love” relationship, however this is very unstable as we see by the rising
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A different kind of relationship
I’m one of those people who was fed up with the ‘human race’ and the world of politically correct nonsense. Then I got a lucky break by winning the lottery which gave me enough that I never had to work again.
I’d married and divorced some years earlier and bought a modest but very attractive property on the edge of town. I isolated myself to some degree and in social service I took up growing vegetables some of which going to a local charity hospital and some to a cooperative through which I keep a little contact with the wider but more alternative community.
And been there for almost 6 years when Evelyn bought a
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A new and dangerous social paradigm
Nice kiss by couplenotes/Tumblr
While sex without kissing for the most part throughout human history has been the prerogative of the soldier/rapist who were typically all men and sex workers who are typically women, sex without kissing was once very rare. A kiss is coming together in intimacy in many forms, it’s a declaration of acceptance, trust and affection, and often times used to convey a progression towards deeper intimacy.
Of course there are times when lovers come together with such intense desire that they forgo kissing, but the increasing openness of society in terms of knowledge that is often distorted, and the ease of the Internet that is saturated with Continue reading Sex Before Kissing
Anal Sex – Shall I or Shan’t I?
Hi Dianna, I’ve recently started allowing my boyfriend have anal sex with me and one once he actually gets inside me, after the initial discomfort while is not exactly unpleasant, it’s not exactly great either so what’s the big deal and should I continue?
Thanks for writing Veronica, for some people anal sex is a really big thing and for others it’s not. You need plenty of lube and in terms of penetration, it’s somehow contrary to nature and takes a little practice to relax those sphincter muscles and sometimes the urge to push out.
For most women, this form of sex is something they ‘allow’ rather than enjoy as there are
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A conversation recorded
My sister Ciara and her friend Sandy were a little bored as they sat watching the rain running down the windows. I’d just stacked fire and I think they’d forgotten I was still there doing some homework, but it was hard not to hear what they were saying and this is some of their conversation.
Sandy: what is it about men Ciara? You know I quite like Alfie, in many ways he’s really nice and I feel strongly attracted to him but he’s really useless at sex.
Ciara: unfortunately I kinda know what you mean because most of the boys I’ve been with just please themselves and sometimes I just can’t be bothered having sex because I’m
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And human needs
Radhe Krishna are collectively known within Hinduism as the combination of the feminine and masculine aspects of God representing the loving ideal or peak of human possibility.
Even though we think we love someone and even though we fall in love to a degree that we experience an emotional euphoria and sense of well-being, this is not really what love is.
Love is a state of pleasantness within an individual and between people, it is a state of being and not an action. It is one a of life to become love and in doing so you become a very pleasant person who people want to be with.
However we live in a world where love
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Strange but true
The age of consent for sexual activity in the UK is 16 and other countries have set the legal age at anything from 12 to 20 although in some Islamic countries girls as young as 4 are often raped and can be married at age 8 or 9 and the marriage consummated.. In ancient cultures, girls were often married as soon as they reached puberty.
Most Middle Eastern countries recognise the following Islamic law:
“After having sexual relations with a lamb, it is a mortal sin to eat its flesh.”
In Lebanon, men are legally allowed to have sex with animals, but the animals must be female. Having sexual relations with a male animal is punishable by
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There is an old saying: If a lady says “no”, she means “maybe”. If lady says “maybe”, she means “yes”. If a lady says “yes”, she is no lady.
The book ‘The Cultural Scaffolding of Rape‘ investigates the phenomenon of women’s token resistance to sex (i.e. saying no when they meant yes). Based on the study ‘The Prevalence and Correlates of Women’s Token Resistance to Sex’ by Charlene L. Muehlenhard and Lisa C. Hollabaugh and first published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (1988)
They found that 39.3% of the undergraduates they had surveyed had said no when they meant yes, and this was for 3 types of reasons: practical, inhibition-related, and manipulative
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