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Eroticism

A celebration of life

One of the most commonly shared views of what constitutes erotic is the female body and eroticism could well be defined as an interest or even an obsession with what people perceive as being erotic.

To break this down further, the erotic generates a smile and stimulates desires that may not necessarily be sexual. Erotica consists of the wide range of subject material, and eroticism the passion that people have to appreciate and seek out what they perceive as being erotic.

When we look at life, human sexuality is an essential part of life and the act of sexual intercourse between consenting persons is one of the greatest joys in life. But when we bring

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Sex therapy

An all too common story labelled as love in decline

Benjamin was a brash dominating man who expected his wife of five years to be the perfect wife. That entailed keeping house and serving all his needs. He was not particularly unkind or inconsiderate, he was simply emulating his father’s behaviour toward his mother who suffered from chronic depression.

For the first year, Maryann was happy. Her girlfriends were envious because she had made a good catch, but behind the scenes the novelty was wearing off. It was not that she didn’t love Benjamin, it’s just that they were losing their spark and in his mind, it was her fault.

As her interest in sex wore off and life became

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The Art of Belly Dance

Goddess Celebration and Fertility Dance

‘The Pearl Fishers’. Rene Milot. Oil on canvas. Click for larger image

Belly dance plays a number of functions within society and it has a rich history. Often referred to as Arabic dance, Oriental dancing or Exotic dancing, it’s widely believed to be an Arab dance originating in Egypt. Know one knows the exact origins although it appears to have been centred between North India, The Black Sea and North Africa. Over the millennia it has evolved to take many different forms depending on the country and region between the Mediterranean to the Pacific.

It originated as a fertility dance within cultures inspired by the joy of life and it

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Sacred Sexuality

Into the Realm of Bliss and Wholeness with Sacred Sexuality

Sex Art from Khajuraho, India

Sacred sexuality has had a great deal of press in recent years however with new avenues of research and new understandings, these ideas are spreading within the wider community. There are those who continue to disparage this work, but they are an increasing minority.

It is hoped that the casual reader may get that sexuality has nothing to do with morals or social rules, it is more to do with a divine connection which occurs in the hearts of lovers and is fuelled by real intimacy and sex is only a part of that conversation.

Sacred sexuality is not about having more

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Victoria's Adventures

Living with a strong libido pt 2

From part one

Managing her decadent life

Victoria was creating a nice life for herself. On weekday mornings Stephen would go to work around 7:30 a.m. and one of the young men from the village would come in, help with the housework and of course they had plenty of time for sex.

When the young man left Jason, an IT worker who worked from home in the village often called by for another sexual interlude before Victoria went to the pub for one or two glasses of wine. Then in the afternoon she got into the habit of going horse riding or walks with men from the district.

As long as the

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Sensual Massage

The gentleness of touch

Before getting into this touchy subject, please remember that we experience the world through our senses and our entire perception of life depends on our sense perception. In other words, everything we see, hear, touch or taste is conveyed through our senses to our minds for interpretation and sensual massage increases our ability to perceive.

Our senses are those of vision, touch, hearing, taste and smell. Just think, we exercise our bodies so that they perform more efficiently. We do mental exercises to keep our minds sharp and alert so why not sensual massage to enhance sensitivity?

Sensual massage is generally a soft massage over the entirety of the body that stimulates all the sense receptors

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Pleasure and Beauty

Beauty; an interaction that pleases the senses

Bob Marley

Beauty is a trick of the mind

Our minds and lives continually seek balance and beauty is seen when there are balanced proportions. We look for it in everyone’s face and body, and we feel pleasure at the sight of balance as balance equals beauty and beauty is related to the golden number.

Not everyone remembers Bob Marley, the charismatic and popular musician. If you did not know him and passed him in the street, he may pass unnoticed. Like all people, there is beauty in the face but in Bob’s case, the beauty in his music; the sound, the meaning and the delivery. The beauty in the person has

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Massage Fun

Getting more than I expected

Hello again, I’ve already shared with you my search for the perfect massage and since I’ve been married, I’ve broadened my horizons and opened myself to some interesting experiences. But first I should tell you that even though I’m married, work often keeps us apart and he is happy for me to indulge in such physical pleasures.

We’d only been back from the honeymoon for two weeks when we went to a party and I got talking about massage with the lady of the house who said her husband had magic hands and enjoyed treating family and friends. We weren’t exactly friends, but he was friendly enough and after my new hubby agreed, we scheduled

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A day in the office

A Christmas Tale

part five of a Xmas let go. Pt4Pt1

I lay in bed reminiscing that yesterday had been rather interesting. I was in no hurry as my only appointment that morning was with one of the senior partners to brief him on what I’d accomplished. I was still in bed when Rick called. It was so nice to see my kids and I wondered what my boys would be like when they were the same age as the two I’d had sex with last night.

I arrived in the office looking suitably professional to be greeted by a huge pile of paperwork delivered from the courts and I was still going through that when

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Boxing day

A Christmas Tale

Part four of a Xmas let go. Pt3Pt1

As I drove to work, I reflected that my family had only been gone for 24 hours and in their absence I’d had some amazing sex with three different guys. Part of me wanted to feel guilty, but what Dave and other people I knew said about relationships made perfect sense. I wasn’t about to have any more kids because I had my tubes tied after my last child was born and I arrived at the office are feeling very satisfied.

As I went into the building I reminded the security guys to announce my clients before they got on the lift to go up.

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