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Modest is Not Hottest

Ideas about growing up, conformity and fashion for girls

Eye candy

Growing up in our materialistic world is a challenge and many the many self esteem issues so many suffer from stem back to those moments of comparison with others, in particular the unrealistic magazine and makeup images of what you should look like.

The fashion industry promotes the body beautiful with shorter skirts, lower necklines, bigger busts, thinner legs, perfected eyebrows, and a pencil thin waistline. Girls are being constantly told exactly how to look and how to be hot, to be desired, and sexy mostly by males.

Our world is very elitist and this is mostly to do with basic survival needs, like more money and

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Boys toy

A girl who enjoys sex

Hey there, this world is really one fucked-up place but I have a story that has never quite made sense. A few years back I picked up this girl hitchhiking out of Canberra and like she was wearing an open little jacket showing her tits but I managed to put away my lust and we had a really nice conversation, its like we just clicked.

She said she wasn’t going to meet anyone and had no place to stay but wanted to spend time in Sydney so I said that she was welcome to crash on my couch which she accepted. Now one of my mates had invited me to a barbecue so we drove

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Sex Before Kissing

A new and dangerous social paradigm

Nice kiss by couplenotes/Tumblr

While sex without kissing for the most part throughout human history has been the prerogative of the soldier/rapist who were typically all men and sex workers who are typically women, sex without kissing was once very rare. A kiss is coming together in intimacy in many forms, it’s a declaration of acceptance, trust and affection, and often times used to convey a progression towards deeper intimacy.

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Surviving Rape

A rape survivors story

Over 5,000 children under 16 raped every year in the UK and over 62,939 in the USA but only a small percentage are ever reported and fewer prosecuted. Since the influx of Muslims into the EU in 2015, across the board rapes increased by 162,00 although some authorities dispute this. Many Muslims consider sex with girls as young as four legal and as culturally appropriate behaviour for men.

Hi there, my name’s Elaine but people call me Lenny and I still live in London not far from where I grew up. I only have vague memories of me, me mum and little sister being dirt poor after me dad went into nick. I was only

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Sex Talk

A conversation recorded

My sister Ciara and her friend Sandy were a little bored as they sat watching the rain running down the windows. I’d just stacked fire and I think they’d forgotten I was still there doing some homework, but it was hard not to hear what they were saying and this is some of their conversation.

Sandy: what is it about men Ciara? You know I quite like Alfie, in many ways he’s really nice and I feel strongly attracted to him but he’s really useless at sex.

Ciara: unfortunately I kinda know what you mean because most of the boys I’ve been with just please themselves and sometimes I just can’t be bothered having sex because I’m

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Getting a massage

Massage and your responsibility

What you have to do and what you may expect when you go for a massage. The points raised here are for your consideration and if you are uncertain about anything, ask at the time of booking.

The reasons you go for a massage are many and in general terms you may expect:

Relaxation – generally a gentle full or part body massage Stress release – a gentle to firm full body massage Human contact – a gentle to firm full body massage Body toning and self improvement – a firm full body massage Treatment of injuries or some health problems – a gentle, firm or strong full or part body massage. Note that a complete

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Why Massage Breasts?

Self care and healing through touch

Massage has been proven to support general health and wellbeing, it has also proved effective in treating many acute and chronic health problems, therefore it stands to reason that massage will also help to maintain the health of the breasts.

Remember that massage primarily helps our bodies by facilitating the removal of toxins and waste products while improving circulation in the treated areas. From the perspective of massage, breasts are important and as deserving of treatment as any other part of the body.

Enshrined Ignorance With the advent of registration, commercialisation and developing political correctness within the massage industry, the female breasts have been omitted in many massage school curriculum’s. The USA is the

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Human Growth Hormones

HGH is Not A Steroid

Human Growth Hormone is not a steroid. Read that again. HGH and anabolic steroids are not the same thing. Got it? Good, because there are so many misconceptions about both agents of human growth and development that most people simply lump them into the same category.

Heck, even the media doesn’t know the difference. Most stories you read about performance enhancing drugs just hide the fact that the journalist who wrote the story doesn’t have a clue about what steroids are, what HGH does, and that there’s no grey area that separates the two in athletic competition. HGH is not steroids. Simple as that.

A Definition

HGH is a synthetic version of growth hormone, a

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How to Improve Your Life

Kindly advise

Take a 10-40 minute walk every day and while you walk, smile.

Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day

Sleep for 7 hours

Live with the 3 E’s : Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy.

Play more games.

Read more books than you did last year.

Drink plenty of water.

Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured.

Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a pauper.

Make time to practice meditation, it provides us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

Dream more while you are awake.

Smile and laugh more.

Try to make at least 3 people smile each day.

Don’t waste

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Massage; Body and Mind

The magic of touch

Massage is a global industry and one of the most effective treatments for muscular aches and pains, but what is less known is that massage is also helpful in relieving many other health problems including mental and emotional stress.

Physical stress relief

It’s well known that getting out of your head and into your body releases stress and refreshes the spirit. Therefore active people take some responsibility for their lives by engaging in physical activity. For some people it may be running, for others it may be swimming, mountain climbing or yoga, but it can be any activity where winning is not important that challenges body and mind so that they function harmoniously.

By focusing on

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