The greatest responsibility
You may have not thought about this, but we are a species amongst many and our collective survival is more important than the individual, yet it is up to every individual to cooperate so that we may perpetuate our species into a far different future.
Yet today we live in an age of individualism and the role of parenting subjected to political whims and fancies. You could say that civilisation has gone astray because we are destroying our planetary environment that future generations will depend on for their lives, so the question remains, will the selfishness and shortsightedness of this generation spell the end of humanity?
Parents today are divided and yet the greatest wish is that
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Tell it the way it is
Periodically in the media this week, discussions about sex education for children re-emerge. Those who consider themselves enlightened want to tell kids the facts of life as they really are while the moral opposition wants kids to remain forever in ignorance until that time comes when they fumble in the dark and are left suffering various forms of anxiety.
In terms of statistics, these prove that children who are well educated about sex are more likely to put off sex until they are older and practice safe sex, they are also much less likely to get pregnant so it seems really strange that the moralists want to raise their kids in ignorance and expose
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A formula for happy babies
Baby massage has long been a part of the Ayurvedic tradition of India and today its usefulness is catching on in the west. Mothers are discovering that by rubbing their children from birth keeps them more contented, better socialised and less inclined to act up.
When babies are unusually or unreasonably temperamental, when they cry for no apparent reason or they wake up crying, it’s hard to know exactly what’s wrong with them. It could be colic, it could be wind or a whole host of other things.
But the improved mother baby bonding that is achieved through regular massage can give mothers a deeper perception into their child’s condition and the massage also
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Anecdotal short stories
Introduction: There are estimates that say about 2 – 5% of brothers and sisters have physically intimate relationships for varying periods of time, (see refs below). In some countries this is highly illegal but children are learning to become responsible adults and sex is part of that learning curve. Therefore the most common response around the world is for their parents to gently chastise them without involving the law.
These three stories are examples of what can happen but it is not the intention to moralise, argue with the law or justify this behaviour. This behaviour is a fact of life that need not be harshly judged and children who are found out may need appropriate guidance
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A new and dangerous social paradigm
Nice kiss by couplenotes/Tumblr
While sex without kissing for the most part throughout human history has been the prerogative of the soldier/rapist who were typically all men and sex workers who are typically women, sex without kissing was once very rare. A kiss is coming together in intimacy in many forms, it’s a declaration of acceptance, trust and affection, and often times used to convey a progression towards deeper intimacy.
Of course there are times when lovers come together with such intense desire that they forgo kissing, but the increasing openness of society in terms of knowledge that is often distorted, and the ease of the Internet that is saturated with Continue reading Sex Before Kissing
An inversion of values
By lmsunshine94 @ Tumblr
In as much as very few people know the absolute truth of existence, humanity has always had a sense of what is true, what is untrue and the need for truth in a relative way. Our entire legal framework is established on the precept that there is some truth as to what happened in a particular situation and that truth must be revealed to establish innocence or guilt.
For the ordinary people, truth was that we must eat to live, we must reproduce to sustain the population and we must perform certain activities and behave in certain ways to maintain social harmony. Beyond this, any other idea such as the existence
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A rape survivors story
Over 5,000 children under 16 raped every year in the UK and over 62,939 in the USA but only a small percentage are ever reported and fewer prosecuted. Since the influx of Muslims into the EU in 2015, across the board rapes increased by 162,00 although some authorities dispute this. Many Muslims consider sex with girls as young as four legal and as culturally appropriate behaviour for men.
Hi there, my name’s Elaine but people call me Lenny and I still live in London not far from where I grew up. I only have vague memories of me, me mum and little sister being dirt poor after me dad went into nick. I was only
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The art of coexistence
Sex along with eating is one of the most natural of human activities. Our distant ancestors wore no clothing, they would have witnessed animals mating and discovered that sex was pleasurable. The pleasure that comes from having sex is natures incentive to ensure that we perpetuate our species and without that pleasure, we would likely have become extinct long ago.
Men and women are almost like two distinct species and if it was not for our need to reproduce, it seems probable as some thinkers say, that men would have killed all the women simply because they are stronger and have never understood them. Mind you women cannot understand men either, but for the most part
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Rising male incompetence, infertility and female genital mutilation
By Egyptian cartoonist Doaa Eladl
In their interpretation of Islam, Muslims have made nightmares of their lives. Most rational people know that Islam wants to control the entire world and is fully prepared to kill everyone who does not become a Muslim. But they have no regard for reason, no concept of insanity and of course most people know that Muslim men have no respect for women who under Islamic law are little more than chattels.
In the ongoing battle between the sexes, an argument that is being going on since Adam and Eve, the Islamic solution was simply to make women non-people and the Islamic culture a
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Rub that pain away
From the onset of puberty, the woman’s mistress cycle presents a series of challenges. She needs to maintain a dietary program that contains the nutrients to replace the losses sustained during her period. She also needs to maintain a fitness program so that her reproductive system has the freedom to function as it should.
We live in an age of decay and very few women are blessed with perfectly healthy bodies, although in the thrall of youth, it is very easy to feel indestructible and totally in command of life even when you are not.
Heavy, a regular and painful periods are symptomatic that not only reproductive health is an issue, it’s also a symptom of
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For women that is..
As campaigns like free the nipple gather momentum and other campaigns for social equity and the right for both women and men to be able to go topless in public, what is the problem with breasts?
The real problem is religion and the idea that the human body is somehow sinful. This is a moral overlay on humanity. In the animal kingdom, there is no discrimination between breasts and the nose or the penis and the tail.
With the advent of Christianity which was designed for population control under the pretext of spiritual freedom, the new Christians could not accept the human body as it was. They had to put it down and decided that Continue reading Exposing the breasts