The Nature of Affairs

Is it human nature or perversion?

Can I make anything clearer?

Within the fold of human relationships, the monogamous marriage has taken precedence within the world and while people marry for all the right reasons and the best of intentions, sometimes they cannot prevent themselves from having what are referred to as illicit relationships.

Monogamy or any relationship for that matter is a social convenience and not a law of nature. If we look at the statistics relating to marriage, around 80% admit to some form of infidelity be it entertaining the idea of being intimately involved with another person who is not one’s marriage partner, we can be reasonably well assured that there is not one person

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Relationships and Fidelity

My husband is at work but his brother is hitting on me

Dear Dianna, my name is Roxanne from California, USA. I’ve been married to Scott for two years and I’m just about to turn 23. To make ends meet he works really long hours but so far I’ve only been able to get some casual part-time work which is fine because we’re doing okay.

But it’s almost 2 months ago now that Scott’s brother Brett came to stay with us after losing his job. His situation was desperate enough that is only choices were to stay with us or live on the streets. Initially Scott was indifferent to him but after a word from his mother, he finally invited

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Tales of infidelity

The experience and feedback

Anon writes: I won’t tell you my name but I’ve been married for five years and having decided to put off having kids until after I turned 30, we’d been working hard to build our dream home. We hadn’t gone too far overboard in terms of debt, but I’m sure this was one of the major factors upsetting our relationship.

In those first few years of courtship and marriage we both had good paying jobs and a great deal of confidence, so we had sex often and everywhere. But in some-ways it seemed too good to last because my work

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Tales of Infidelity

A wife’s indulgences part one

Hi there, I’ve known for several years that quite a few acquaintances have been sleeping around outside of their marriages and it’s pretty hard to conceal because people gossip and brag. My friend Jenny had quite a thing going on with their gardener until one day her husband came home and caught them. They live four doors away and one day I actually heard them screaming at each other, but the next day they were as normal as ever although the gardener was sacked.

Then there was Nancy and Ted who lived opposite us, he was having an affair with his secretary but when his wife found out they divorced and we have some charming

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Ambers Mum

Down but not out in the UK

I was married when I was at 18 mostly because I had to and I gave birth to my daughter Amber when was 19. The experience was enjoyable except that my partner Steve seemed to be forever off chasing other girls. He was always a bit wild but he began to settle down after Amber was born and managed to hold on to regular work.

Our relationship was always rocky and we argued about almost everything although I loved making up afterwards. I didn’t mind that he spent more time playing sport and hanging out with his workmates because it made life much easier but I really missed the sex that we used

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Banning Prostitution

Would it make women safer?

From time to time various groups of people within society speak out against the world’s oldest profession. While most intelligent people recognise that what is referred to as prostitution caters for a very real human need and the trade makes up a significant part of the economy.

But before we continue, let’s clarify some terms as there are millions of women around the world referred to as prostitutes who could be referred to as sex workers, Escort’s or Courtesan’s.


The word prostitute means to go against one’s core values and beliefs. Therefore anyone prostituting themselves is doing themselves some psychological and possibly physical harm. Prostitutes may not necessarily like sex, they simply do

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Problem sleeping

Finding the perfect sedative

I’d been on a roll for a the past few weeks and now with my career on track, I was so excited. In celebration we had a nice party at the Hilton although most the team got a bit drunk and I probably drink a little too much myself.

Part way through the evening I went off to use the bathroom and Simon the head accountant who I had to be nice to followed me. Well, I’d done my business and when I stepped out of the cubicle, there he was. He was all hands and once he got my skirt off I figured there was no point and say no any longer.

The sex was

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Tales of Infidelity

Jokes about relationships and infidelity

Savings Plan

A young couple decided that a painless way for them to be able to save money would be for the husband to put all his change into the bedside china piggy bank each time they had sex.

One night, while things were hot and heavy, the husband accidentally knocked the bank onto the floor where it smashed into pieces. Much to his surprise, among the masses of coins, there were also numerous five and ten dollar bills.

“Whats up with all these bills?” he asked his wife.

“Not everyone is cheap as you are!” she replied.

Fidelity Questioned

Two women friends had gone for a girl’s night out. Both were very faithful and

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Secret affair

A true confession

Hi, my name is Alison and I just have to tell you about my affair. After four years of marriage my romance with Barry was fading. We got on quite amicably and enjoyed our kids aged two and three, and as you may imagine, they are quite a full-time job.

While Barry was at work during the day I’d quite often hang out with my girlfriends who either had kids or just about to. But at the end of year Christmas party for Barry’s work, I got myself into a state because Barry had disappeared and Tony who just lives over our back fence and is married to Hazel told me that Barry had gone to fix

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The flip side of marriage

Thoughts of infidelity on the wedding day

Monogamy has been a goal within most generations and and yet partners continue to stray. Yet marriage the idea of marriage as we know it today is a modern institution although the idea of monogamy, or rather the fact that monogamy happens in humans is sometimes more by chance than design.

There are some species of mammals and birds that form enduring relationships and they remain monogamous for life or until one partner dies. Most people think that is a nice ideal but up until 800 years ago humanity never had the formalised marriage that exists today.

The modern idea of marriage is more about economics

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Tales of Infidelity (R)

Jokes about relationships and infidelity

Husband confesses

After three years of marriage, Kim was still questioning her husband about his lurid past.

“C’mon, tell me,” she asked for the thousandth time, “how many women have you slept with?”

“Baby,” he protested, “if I told you, you’d throw a fit”.

Kim promised she wouldn’t get angry, and convinced her hubby to tell her.

“Okay,” he said, “One, two, three, four, five, six, seven – then there’s you – nine, ten, 11, 12, 13..”

Kim didn’t speak to him for a week then began proceedings for divorce because he was unfaithful before they met.

Lucky Linda

A guy goes down for breakfast and it is quite obvious that his wife has

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