Time for a new paradigm
Throughout our entire history, there has probably never been a time when casual sex was not a normal part of human behaviour which. While sex is very misunderstood in the minds of many, the act itself can be as simple or as complicated as we want it to be.
When we look at ourselves and the people we move through life with, it has become unusual for people not to have some casual sexual experiences. 30 years ago casual sex was less common, but today we have the tools and technology as well as education in many places to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and prevent unwanted pregnancy.
So casual sex is not
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Dealing with men and trying to find one that’ll do
Hi there, I’m sending you some of my insights and experiences because I enjoyed some of your posts and your readers might learn something. Anyhow, I guess I’m pretty much just an average girl from Lancashire, my parents tried to teach me manners and I gotta admit that they come in handy sometimes.
I’ve got no great expectations in life and like most people, I want to have fun and maybe a family one day. My sex life began when I was 13, I went to a party, the boys got me drunk and I ended up having sex with two of them. It wasn’t all that nice, but it
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The experience and feedback
Hi there, I won’t tell you my name but I’ve been married for five years and having decided to put off having kids until after I turned 30 we’d both been working hard to build our dream home. We hadn’t gone too far overboard in terms of debt but I’m sure this is one of the major factors that’s been causing strife in our relationship.
In those first few years of courtship and marriage we both had good paying jobs and a great deal of confidence, so we had sex often and everywhere, but it seemed like that was all too good to last because of been reduced to a part-time job and although Simon is
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Anecdotal short stories
Introduction: There are estimates that say about 2 – 5% of brothers and sisters have physically intimate relationships for varying periods of time, (see refs below). In some countries this is highly illegal but children are learning to become responsible adults and sex is part of that learning curve. Therefore the most common response around the world is for their parents to gently chastise them without involving the law.
These three stories are examples of what can happen but it is not the intention to moralise, argue with the law or justify this behaviour. This behaviour is a fact of life that need not be harshly judged and children who are found out may need appropriate guidance
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And a happy ending
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Hi, you can call me Carol, a happily single 28-year-old lawyer. All the guys in the office think I’m a pretty good-looking not likely to agree that the flattery as nice. Its a fairly high stress job and its normal behaviour for the guys after a bad day or a particularly good day to go out and get laid after work though it’s not considered proper for women.
It would have been convenient to get off with some of my colleagues that we had a strict rule about office affairs just in case they got out of hand. My sex life on the whole is good enough but on
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A new and dangerous social paradigm
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While sex without kissing for the most part throughout human history has been the prerogative of the soldier/rapist who were typically all men and sex workers who are typically women, sex without kissing was once very rare. A kiss is coming together in intimacy in many forms, it’s a declaration of acceptance, trust and affection, and often times used to convey a progression towards deeper intimacy.
Of course there are times when lovers come together with such intense desire that they forgo kissing, but the increasing openness of society in terms of knowledge that is often distorted, and the ease of the Internet that is saturated with Continue reading Sex Before Kissing
Anal Sex – Shall I or Shan’t I?
Hi Dianna, I’ve recently started allowing my boyfriend have anal sex with me and one once he actually gets inside me, after the initial discomfort while is not exactly unpleasant, it’s not exactly great either so what’s the big deal and should I continue?
Thanks for writing Veronica, for some people anal sex is a really big thing and for others it’s not. You need plenty of lube and in terms of penetration, it’s somehow contrary to nature and takes a little practice to relax those sphincter muscles and sometimes the urge to push out.
For most women, this form of sex is something they ‘allow’ rather than enjoy as there are
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A wife’s indulgences part one
Introduction: This is a lengthy story about life, infidelity, casual sex and relationships that takes place in the southern United States. The story centres around Alyssa who on occasion goes into pornographic detail as she describes her experiences. Then she analyses those experiences and develops a philosophical line that puts her behaviour and her lifestyle into a holistic perspective. The first few pages which anyone can read provided taste, but as the language and the accompanying images become much more graphic, membership is required.
Hi there, I’ve known for several years that quite a few acquaintances have been sleeping around outside of their marriages and it’s pretty hard to conceal because people gossip and brag.
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A wife’s indulgences part two
From part one Hi there, you recall that I sent you the story of my first sexual foray outside of my marriage and I have decided not to sit in judgement on myself over this. I have indulged in another three wildly exciting sexual experiences with my neighbour Jerry and I also had a nice long chat with his wife Sally who knows everything, well that I’ve been fucking her husband but not all the details. Amazingly she approves and she’s shared stories of some of her conquests.
The talk with Sally put things into perspective quite a bit, and while I’ve had great fun with Jerry, I don’t have any desire for him
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A wife’s indulgences part three
From part two Hi again, last time I wrote to you was just after I’d had amazing sex with a client, but that night my husband Danny was feeling unusually amorous and I found it difficult to relate as usual though he didn’t seem to notice. Then the next morning as I was running about doing my chores in the buff when Jerry’s wife Sally asked if I could come over and give her a hand. I thought nothing of it so I put on one of Danny’s shirts which was handy and it covered me well enough and I ran across the street.
She was fresh out of the shower with a towel
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A wife’s indulgences part four
From part three: After an evening making love to my friend and neighbour Sally and then going to bed with my husband who promptly fell asleep, I lay awake thinking about sex and relationships, or more specifically what I wanted from life. The strong physical sex I got from Sally’s husband Jerry really seemed to put my body and mind in order, but it had also awoken a desire to have that regularly although unfortunately, Jerry was only available once or twice a week and my two intimate liaison’s with Sally were sweet and lovely, they were less important.
I reviewed my interaction with my neighbours aware that I’d lusted after a
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