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When “No” Means “Yes”

The most infamous contradiction

We live in an age of confusion where very few people know their own minds or even have control over their desires. The majority are locked into compulsive behaviours and unable to be truly responsible.

All human beings have an underlying desire to perpetuate our species through the passing on of genetic material. We have evolved the system of marriage as a way to do that which ensures that children have some stability in their lives and every young man and young women has an inherent desire for intimate connection with another human being.

Unfortunately human desires and human sexuality have been been hijacked by capitalism into a great deal of confusion in the population.

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Family fun

Teenage sex question

Hi Dianna, I read a couple of your stories about a year ago and to be honest, I didn’t really think much about them beyond a few ideas to masturbate to. But since then I’ve been going to yoga, meditating and then recently I had this crazy sexy experience that I just have to tell someone, so this is what happened.

We moved into this new house about six months ago and when I was setting up my room, I discovered a USB cord sticking out of the wall. I had no idea what it was, so I plugged it into my laptop and discovered that there were cameras in every room of the house.

Then I

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Jody's Wisdom

Part four of Jody’s journey

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Jody spent a year treading the rivers of indifference and cold streets of pride in California. She spoke a deep and ancient truth that was applauded by those who were sufficiently enlightened, but her key message was like that of the Buddha, that people always had a choice.

Despite the corruption of civilisation and that most people endured a lifetime of suffering, it was eminently possible to step out of that suffering. She continued to advise people that they could either wallow in their suffering and be grateful for moments of pleasure or they could be

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Growing pains

A girls life

I remember my parents used to argue a lot after which they had noisy sex and things would be okay for a few days. I wasn’t supposed to see all this, but in our small two room apartment there was no way I could avoid knowing everything that went on.

But their relationship became so predictable that I was able to visit my friends when they were fighting although I liked being there when they made up. The walls in our apartment were so thin I made several holes so I could watch them having sex.

The arguing never made sense, but sex looked like fun and before long I was experimenting with boys at school. I

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Does no mean yes?

There is an old saying: If a lady says “no”, she means “maybe”. If lady says “maybe”, she means “yes”. If a lady says “yes”, she is no lady.

The book ‘The Cultural Scaffolding of Rape‘ investigates the phenomenon of women’s token resistance to sex (i.e. saying no when they meant yes). Based on the study ‘The Prevalence and Correlates of Women’s Token Resistance to Sex’ by Charlene L. Muehlenhard and Lisa C. Hollabaugh and first published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (1988)

They found that 39.3% of the undergraduates they had surveyed had said no when they meant yes, and this was for 3 types of reasons: practical, inhibition-related, and

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Taken

A young girl’s story of being kidnapped (R)

Thousands of girls disappear every year

Nina was walking home, having enjoyed her day at school and she felt delighted with her school companions and the warm sunny afternoon. When they came to her street, she said goodbye to her friends and thoughtfully turned her mind back to the school lesson of the day as she walked the 200 m to her house unaware of the two men behind her until she was grabbed.

Her world went dark, she was bundled into a vehicle, her mouth, hands and feet bound with tape so she couldn’t move, and her head covered with some rough and scratchy cloth which at the moment was

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Fidelity

A factor in all relationships

It’s one of those social things where there is no clear answer, if we look back through history, the ruling elite have always had sex on the side in addition to their primary relationships. With the arrival of the Industrial Revolution, the ruling classes had sex with whoever they wanted while the middle-class men preferred prostitutes to having sex with their wives which often created more babies to feed.

The working poor, they clung to each other in desperation to survive and marriage became an economic and social unit whereas for the wealthy, marriage was a convenience. Across all classes of society today, there are a great many marriages of convenience and love may or

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Love and excitement P 16

Continued from Pt 15Part one.

Conclusion

If you have read this story from the beginning, it all took place in the latter part of the George W Bush era. For the past few years, selling my body has simply been a job that I become almost indifferent to. The greater delight I had was in giving people full body massages and making them feel better within themselves.

For those of you who don’t know, the typical Escort client meeting is one where there’s usually some polite conversation which often leads into listening to the clients sad life stories and I almost take on the role of a counsellor. Then quite often, I give the poor guy

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Carolina

A comment on sexuality

Carolina was a ‘good’ girl, she’s a year older than me and we have known each other since we were kids. She would sometimes admonish me for being too much of a tart and my less than perfect reputation. But I didn’t think that is was deserved and it annoys me to this day that boys who sleep around are considered heroes whereas girls are bad mouthed.

Anyhow, turning 18 was a big deal because it meant that in this country at least, girls were able to legally have sex although in some countries it’s much younger. So there was a string of 18th birthday parties to go to and one of them was Carolina’s.

It

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Tomboy

Jo grew up out in the sticks, christened Joanne, she was the second oldest in a family of five boys. The father ran a fairly large farming operation and her mother was home most of the time.

As a young child, she went to school by bus and she preferred involving herself and farming operations. Like most farm kids, she learned about sex at a very young age and her conservative mother reluctantly spelt out the facts of life. As a girl, she was expected to help out around the home as well as look after her younger siblings so she got to know all about the male anatomy.

Their extended community was very male dominated and there were only

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