Ideas about growing up, conformity and fashion for girls
Growing up in our materialistic world is a challenge and many the many self esteem issues so many suffer from stem back to those moments of comparison with others, in particular the unrealistic magazine and makeup images of what you should look like.
The fashion industry promotes the body beautiful with shorter skirts, lower necklines, bigger busts, thinner legs, perfected eyebrows, and a pencil thin waistline. Girls are being constantly told exactly how to look and how to be hot, to be desired, and sexy mostly by males.
Our world is very elitist and this is mostly to do with basic survival needs, like more money and
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No two breasts are identical
The alternatives here are generally to live with the unevenness or to have surgery
Uneven breasts are common and the typical amount of unevenness of most women’s breasts is usually concealed under clothing and a good bra provides camouflage although it may have unpleasant consequences later in life. Most unevenness is unnoticeable unless naked and it’s rarely a health problem.
The size and shape of breasts will change over time as one passes into adulthood, menstruation and having children. The unevenness rarely affects milk supply or the ability to lactate. But no one really knows why breasts sometimes develop unevenly, but these are some recognised causes and remedies:
1. Hormonal changes or even
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How we see ourselves and each other.
Beauty the way God made us and the vehicle of our existence. A Hegre Art Image
We live in an age of political correctness and a great deal of confusion about who we are in for a great many reasons. Yet by and large we have come to identify ourselves as being a combination of our physical body, our mind and even spirit for those who believe or perceive.
When we think about our body self, it is really about how we perceive ourselves and how we identify ourselves. When a public official asks our identity, we give our name and governmental record number. When a
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A symptom of health and vitality
I know I am sexy,I love to enjoy and share my own sexiness, but it does not mean that I am being sexual or inviting sexual attention.
The consensus of many dictionaries defines sexy and sexiness as a person or a something that is considered pleasing or attractive in a sensual or sexual context. This is a perception existing only in the mind of the person who is perceiving. Sexy can also be something cool like new or nice car as cool has become a by-word that can also mean sexy.
Any shape or thing in nature can be seen as sexy because what is sexy is defined in the mind of the
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The evolution of desire
It is characteristic of human beings that we cannot live without desire. Some people who follow Buddhism erroneously think that one must abandon desire but this is impossible because to stay alive and experience life we must desire to live and we must desire to have the experience.
It is a characteristic that if we are unhappy, we desire to be unhappy but it is also a perversion that people who resign themselves to unhappiness also try to make everyone around them unhappy. So if you think that you and beings are the weirdest of creatures, you are probably right.
Our basic desire is for a full belly, clean water and the creature comforts of warm
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Essence of femininity
The Sari is the traditional dress for women living in much of India and South East Asia. Essentially it is a long length of cloth available in a variety of colours, designs and textures.
As one of the world is more versatile garments, it can be worn as a skirt with a separate top or at can be worn as a dress in many ways. Traditionally the Sari is wound around the hips a couple of times, then around the waist and over the shoulders.
The delicacy of the garment allows a person to completely cover themselves from their neck to their ankles, or is in the image here, the midrift can be left bare which
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Flavours in times of of change
Fashion changes by the season and to a large extent is driven by the marketing division of the fashion industry, but it’s really an age-old phenomenon that’s probably existed since before we wore clothes and is inspired by people’s sense of ascetics and comfort.
In some ancient cultures, fashion is irrelevant as people wear traditional costumes although even within them, there is room for subtlety to express better quality, greater comfort and social status. To a large extent the idea of fashion has driven the clothing industry since it began and yet today it has become something of a monster as the fashion change from year to year and a great many garments may
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