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Human Sexuality

A major confusion

Published on: 29 Dec 2015 updated August 20, 2018

There is about as much consensus in society about sexuality as there is about spirituality, and more sex happens in peoples minds than their genitals.

Confusion arises because those who assume moral leadership say one thing and do another. Couple this with the ongoing deconstruction of our societies by social and economic forces.

Sigmund Freud described sexuality as the driver of our psychology and a motivator for all our behaviour which remains relevant today.

But the primary drive to have sex comes from a base biological desire to pass on our genes and perpetuate our species. The desire to breed is an instinctive and powerful force

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Victoria's Adventures

Living with a strong libido pt 1

Victoria was a wayward girl and her parents thought the best thing to do was to get her married as soon as possible. So with the honeymoon over eighteen year old Victoria was getting restless. So far she had done really well at least from her parents perspective as she’d only had one indiscretion with someone other than her new husband.

But last night, Stephen came home late from work to find Victoria lusting after him. But he was so beat from his days work, he failed to meet her needs. She tried to be understanding and when he’d left for work the following morning she thought about getting a job to keep

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Victoria's Adventures

Living with a strong libido pt 2

From part one

Managing her decadent life

Victoria was creating a nice life for herself. On weekday mornings Stephen would go to work around 7:30 a.m. and one of the young men from the village would come in, help with the housework and of course they had plenty of time for sex.

When the young man left, Jason, an IT worker who worked from home in the village often called by for another sexual interlude before Victoria went to the pub for one or two glasses of wine. Then in the afternoon she got into the habit of going horse riding or walks with other men from the district.

As long as

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The Healing Power of Orgasm

Fact or fiction?

There is no general consensus as to the reason we orgasm or any agreement as to what it actually does. We know that it floods the body with some feelgood chemicals and that it’s a deeper sexual experience which helps to facilitate social bonds.

There is some debate as to whether or not the male ejaculation counts as an orgasm or if it is simply a release mechanism for accumulated stress, but there is no doubt that orgasms are very important for women, so much so that in the 1700s and 1800s, masturbation became a commonly used treatment for what men called women’s hysteria.

There is no doubt that life can be very frustrating and good sex

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Getting a massage

Massage and your responsibility

What you have to do and what you may expect when you go for a massage. The points raised here are for your consideration and if you are uncertain about anything, ask at the time of booking.

The reasons you go for a massage are many and in general terms you may expect:

Relaxation – generally a gentle full or part body massage Stress release – a gentle to firm full body massage Human contact – a gentle to firm full body massage Body toning and self improvement – a firm full body massage Treatment of injuries or some health problems – a gentle, firm or strong full or part body massage. Note that a complete

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Sex and the Human Condition

A state of confusion about how to behave

We only come into this world following the act of sexual copulation and it is a biological driver that helps to ensure the continuation of our species.

But in this modern age as in some ages before, there is a great deal of confusion about the act of sex and sexuality. Typically, young people will begin to fantasise about sex and if their social environment is conducive, they may experiment.

There are some modern schools who include human relationships within their curriculum is, but for the majority of young people in the world, sex and what we know about relationships is not taught beyond some simplistic biology.

Consequently, the majority of the

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Vegetarians Make Better Lovers

More caring, connected and capable

Back in 2014 the dating site firstmet.com (formerly AYI) released information from a study about dating preferences. They found that men were 13% more likely to click on a woman’s profile is she was vegetarian.

So, it is pretty clear that men have a preference for vegetarian women but conversely, the opposite was true when it came to women who were 11% less likely to click on a man’s profile if he was vegetarian.

Perhaps this is due to men seeing vegetarian women as more down to earth and intelligent whereas women have been sucked into the idea that real men have some power over life and eating flesh gives them a competitive edge

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A Modern Secret

To beautifying your bust

We all want to look good and lets face it, a nice bust can be advantageous in many ways from finding good employment to finding a life partner. In some cultures a nice bust is a social and economic necessity, but most importantly, a nice bust is good for your self esteem.

Life’s not fair but you don’t have to endure being disadvantaged, there are many breast enhancement options from suction pumps that you must clamp onto your breasts for months at a time and your boobs end up sagging instead of perking up.

Padded bras make you look good until you take them off and then of course, there is the infamous breast implant surgery,

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Tongkat Ali

Also known as Eurycoma and Longifolia Jack

Tongkat Ali is a tall slender shrub which grows wild along the hilly slopes of the rainforests of S.E.Asia and in Malaysia it is sometimes referred to as the ‘herb of a hundred healing qualities’ by the people of south-east Asia. It has of late been identified as also having unique male sexuality improvement qualities.

Research has shown that Eurycoma Longifolia Jack contains several phytochemicals (plant chemicals) that increase the level of testosterone the sex hormone required for male sexual functions, It is also required in the development of the sexual organ and the brain.

The New Straits Sunday Times reported on 30.5.99. That according to Dr. Johan Mohd Saad of University Malaya,

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The Problems with Pornography

An ancient social issue

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Let’s be clear, sexual activity between consenting adults is a natural, normal, healthy and essential activity for human well-being. The desire to participate in sexual activity is normal and natural for everyone and these desires usually begin with puberty.

Pornography has always existed because it is simply about people communicating their ideas about sex. Up until the invention of modern media, pornography had been confined to the world of art and there exist artworks going back tens of thousands of years depicting this expression of life.

Some people find pornography is useful because it stimulates libido, other people find it useful because the erotic imagery adds flavour to intimate relationships so

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