Fact or fiction?
There is no general consensus as to the reason we orgasm or any agreement as to what it actually does. We know that it floods the body with some feelgood chemicals and that it’s a deeper sexual experience which helps to facilitate social bonds.
There is some debate as to whether or not the male ejaculation counts as an orgasm or if it is simply a release mechanism for accumulated stress, but there is no doubt that orgasms are very important for women, so much so that in the 1700s and 1800s, masturbation became a commonly used treatment for what men called women’s hysteria.
There is no doubt that life can be very frustrating and good sex
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Massage and your responsibility
What you have to do and what you may expect when you go for a massage. The points raised here are for your consideration and if you are uncertain about anything, ask at the time of booking.
The reasons you go for a massage are many and in general terms you may expect:
Relaxation – generally a gentle full or part body massage Stress release – a gentle to firm full body massage Human contact – a gentle to firm full body massage Body toning and self improvement – a firm full body massage Treatment of injuries or some health problems – a gentle, firm or strong full or part body massage. Note that a complete
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A state of confusion about how to behave
We only come into this world following the act of sexual copulation and it is a biological driver that helps to ensure the continuation of our species.
But in this modern age as in some ages before, there is a great deal of confusion about the act of sex and sexuality. Typically, young people will begin to fantasise about sex and if their social environment is conducive, they may experiment.
There are some modern schools who include human relationships within their curriculum is, but for the majority of young people in the world, sex and what we know about relationships is not taught beyond some simplistic biology.
Consequently, the majority of the
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More caring, connected and capable
Back in 2014 the dating site firstmet.com (formerly AYI) released information from a study about dating preferences. They found that men were 13% more likely to click on a woman’s profile is she was vegetarian.
So, it is pretty clear that men have a preference for vegetarian women but conversely, the opposite was true when it came to women who were 11% less likely to click on a man’s profile if he was vegetarian.
Perhaps this is due to men seeing vegetarian women as more down to earth and intelligent whereas women have been sucked into the idea that real men have some power over life and eating flesh gives them a competitive edge
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To beautifying your bust
We all want to look good and lets face it, a nice bust can be advantageous in many ways from finding good employment to finding a life partner. In some cultures a nice bust is a social and economic necessity, but most importantly, a nice bust is good for your self esteem.
Life’s not fair but you don’t have to endure being disadvantaged, there are many breast enhancement options from suction pumps that you must clamp onto your breasts for months at a time and your boobs end up sagging instead of perking up.
Padded bras make you look good until you take them off and then of course, there is the infamous breast implant surgery,
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Also known as Eurycoma and Longifolia Jack
Tongkat Ali is a tall slender shrub which grows wild along the hilly slopes of the rainforests of S.E.Asia and in Malaysia it is sometimes referred to as the ‘herb of a hundred healing qualities’ by the people of south-east Asia. It has of late been identified as also having unique male sexuality improvement qualities.
Research has shown that Eurycoma Longifolia Jack contains several phytochemicals (plant chemicals) that increase the level of testosterone the sex hormone required for male sexual functions, It is also required in the development of the sexual organ and the brain.
The New Straits Sunday Times reported on 30.5.99. That according to Dr. Johan Mohd Saad of University Malaya,
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An ancient social issue
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Let’s be clear, sexual activity between consenting adults is a natural, normal, healthy and essential activity for human well-being. The desire to participate in sexual activity is normal and natural for everyone and these desires usually begin with puberty.
Pornography has always existed because it is simply about people communicating their ideas about sex. Up until the invention of modern media, pornography had been confined to the world of art and there exist artworks going back tens of thousands of years depicting this expression of life.
Some people find pornography is useful because it stimulates libido, other people find it useful because the erotic imagery adds flavour to intimate relationships so we
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Or What kind of a Woman Actually Pays For a Sensual Massage?
Self care is associated with valuing one’s self; body mind and spirit. Typically self care is about creating a lifestyle where the needs of body and mind are met, but this modern life is abstracted which creates an exceedingly stressful life.
These abstractions are to do with the politics and morality of living that have nothing to do with reality but more with appeasing the minds of others. The constraints of modern living drive many people mad or cause other stress-related diseases. Ideally all this unnecessary stuff of life is handled through a healthy lifestyle, but in this world a healthy lifestyle is a luxury
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Some Female Opinions
There is no 100% agreement as to the ideal penis size but many continue to argue and magazines have frequent articles on this subject. From a reproductive perspective, as long as his equipment works to be able to impregnate a woman then for many men this is enough for him. However this does not always satisfy, especially if the woman wants a prolonged period of intimacy and pleasure.
In the 21st century, women are putting their careers first and because the world is overpopulated, there is no need to reproduce and sex as a recreational activity. People also have a natural predisposition that when something is good, to strive for something better.
Gina from Los Angeles
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Support to regulate your periods, ease menopausal symptoms and improve your Libido
While life changes and medications often affect sexual desire, a diminishing sex drive may also be a symptom of a developing health problem or stress.
It is well known that excessive stress dulls sex, and a diminished sex drive is often an initial stress symptom along with vaginal dryness and the inability to feel sexually responsive, even when the desire is there, the body may be unwilling. To often the combined stress of relationships, family, home and career are to much to manage and under constant stress, exhaustion sets in and the body eventually begins to shut down. Traumatic or negative experiences cause fear or
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