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Casual Sex

One of humankind’s favourite though sometimes risky pastimes

In the Western world despite the imposing morality of church and state, we live in a world now where sex before marriage is completely normal.

In this modern era many people indulge their sexual fantasies through force, these are generally short-term and could be classified as casual that the casual rapist is a burden on civilisation.

It seems so odd that we live in a world where the girls have been trained to so they don’t yet amongst a group of men there is often some bragging about some form of casual sex or perhaps exotic sex that came unexpectedly.

Few people seem to be aware that sex is not just the

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Some Thoughts on Sex

Personal experiences beyond the social norm

Hi Diana, I read with interest some of the sharings by other woman who seemed to be liberally minded about sexuality and sharing their bodies so I thought I’d offer my two cents worth. I’m a Sydney girl aged 18 at the time when I moved out of home and into a flat with three blokes. My initial concern was that they’d try and make me as the only girl in the house do all the domestic chores but fortunately that didn’t happen.

At the time I only saw myself as being average in terms of attractiveness and in hindsight I’m not exactly proud to admit that I did my share of leading boys

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The Surrendered Wife

A Practical Guide to Finding Intimacy, Passion and Peace with Your Man

By Laura Doyle

From The Publisher: Fore shadowing the movie The Red Pill by film maker Cassie Jaye exploring the men’s rights movement as opposed to the politically correct feminism that’s rampant, this controversial approach to marriage has transformed thousands of relationships, bringing women romance, harmony, and the intimacy they crave.

Like millions of women, Laura Doyle wanted her marriage to be better. But when she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, helpful, and ambitious, he withdrew — and she was lonely and exhausted from controlling everything. Desperate to be in love with her man again, she decided to stop telling him what to do

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The Importance of Sex

In today’s insane world

When we consider relationships, affairs, one-night stands, emergency sex and marriages, what is the right way to go? All these words mean more or less the same, a type of emotional link between two persons. The differences lie in the time the two spend together, how they relate in what they do together and in the details that give a distinct personality to their relationship.

In most cases, the thing that brings two persons together is physical attraction, a chemistry which is sooner or later followed by the complex dance of passion. Most lasting relationships are built around qualities that matter in the

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A History of Sex

And the evolution of the human condition

For many people, sex is something of a mystery, an obsession, highly pleasurable but also highly regulated. Some say that sex is a part of our primal nature and akin to the essence of life itself in part because every second, millions of cells are being born within our bodies.

Sex is elemental to life without which we would not exist. We turn to sex in the desire to breed, sharing joys, relieving sorrows and despite all the different moral codes around the world, and all ways of relating over our history, sex is not well understood and often badly performed.

Sex is one of the most obvious features of our dualistic world

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Whistles and Cat Calls

What’s a girl to do?

There’s a story going around about the aspiring actress Shoshana Roberts who walked the streets of new York and got 108 cat calls over the 10 hours of her experiment. But who in their right mind is going to spend 10 hours a day walking the streets just to make the point that some guys have bad manners and she doesn’t know how to deal with that?

In contrast, the New York Post writer Doree Lewak who would you believe was brazen enough to walk by some building sites bra less in an otherwise fairly modest dress and she says that cat calls are flattering and

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The Prospect of Marriage

A human institution

The joy of marriage

Marriage is a universal human relationship and a social institution that serves the couple and/or society and yet it so often fails so we ask; Does love matter? Do you want to get married? Should you get married? Does your family want you to? Is marriage necessary? Will marriage make a better life?

Marriage is a commitment generally taken for life, yet it has a very high rate of failure and remarriage is a common practice.

For Marriage to work, there must be:

love – is key and the most important aspect. desire – if you don’t’ have desire for the other, why bother? appreciation – if you cannot appreciate or admire

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Sacred Sexuality

Into the Realm of Bliss and Wholeness with Sacred Sexuality

Sex Art from Khajuraho, India

Sacred sexuality has had a great deal of press in recent years however with new avenues of research and new understandings, these ideas are spreading within the wider community. There are those who continue to disparage this work, but they are an increasing minority.

It is hoped that the casual reader may get that sexuality has nothing to do with morals or social rules, it is more to do with a divine connection which occurs in the hearts of lovers and is fuelled by real intimacy and sex is only a part of that conversation.

Sacred sexuality is not about having more

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Boys toy

A girl who enjoys sex

Hey there, this world is really one fucked-up place but I have a story that has never quite made sense. A few years back I picked up this girl hitchhiking out of Canberra and like she was wearing an open little jacket showing her tits but I managed to put away my lust and we had a really nice conversation, its like we just clicked.

She said she wasn’t going to meet anyone and had no place to stay but wanted to spend time in Sydney so I said that she was welcome to crash on my couch which she accepted. Now one of my mates had invited me to a barbecue so we drove

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Relationship Q & A

Questions To Dianna

Hi there, Kayla and I are not married but we’ve been living together for four years and we’re just crazy about each other and love sex. Even though we are both holding down jobs we still manage to have sex two or three times a day. Sometimes we even meet for lunch and have a quickie in a bathroom and we’ve been known to have sex other public places although few people seem to care and others just give us lecherous or jealous looks.

But there are a couple of things that bother me in the first is that I’m really attracted to another couple of girls who are returning that interest and there are always a

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