Categories

Eroticism

A celebration of life

One of the most commonly shared views of what constitutes ‘erotic’ is the female body and eroticism could well be defined as an interest or even an obsession with what people perceive as being erotic or pertaining to the act of sexual union.

To break this down further, the erotic generates a smile and stimulates desires that may not necessarily be sexual. Erotica consists of a wide range of subject material, and eroticism is a perception, a sense of passion that people appreciate and seek out what they perceive as being erotic.

Most countries have some erotic representation or erotica be it hidden as within the USA, or on public display as in the Love

Continue reading Eroticism

Massage-Quips

Sexy and sometimes downright funny

After some forty years of massaging it seems as if there is nothing left about people to surprise me. When the clothes come off, they are either shy, frightened or somehow emboldened, especially if some mind altering substance such as alcohol or other drug has been consumed prior to their arrival or an appointment.

On the other hand they may have been reading their favourite romance novel or watching porn and have formed certain ideas of what massage is all about and what they really desire.

When I consider all the things that have happened to me I can only conclude that we are rather strange

Continue reading Massage-Quips

A History of Pedophilia

An ongoing social fetish

According to the dictionary Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent desires or experiences sexual attraction to prepubescent children or children under legal age in their countries. The desire is classified as a mental disorder and it’s a criminal offence when acted upon.

In contrast Pederasty or paederasty is a homosexual relationship between an adult male and a pubescent or adolescent male. The status of pederasty has changed over the course of history from being an ideal in ancient Greece and Rome, but it’s currently a crime indistinct from pedophilia.

The thing is, throughout history people have been uncertain, to a certain degree lost and fearful of death. It

Continue reading A History of Pedophilia

A History of Sex

And the evolution of the human condition

For many people, sex is something of a mystery, an obsession, highly pleasurable but also highly regulated. Some say that sex is a part of our primal nature and akin to the essence of life itself in part because every second, millions of cells are being born within our bodies.

Sex is elemental to life without which we would not exist. We turn to sex in the desire to breed, sharing joys, relieving sorrows and despite all the different moral codes around the world, and all ways of relating over our history, sex is not well understood and often badly performed.

Sex is one of the most obvious features of our dualistic world

Continue reading A History of Sex

Hard Times

When economies fall, women sell their bodies for cash

The development of the modern economy began thousands of years ago which gave rise to slavery and prostitution as we came to know it. With the development of agriculture men developed unhealthy desires for the fruit of labour and the joy of pleasure without earning it themselves.

They rated neighbouring lands bringing it back strong men to do the physical work and women for sex. Over these thousands of years, little has changed only the methodology governing the acquisition and control of slaves for any purpose has modernised.

Traditionally in countries without social welfare, the poor have been disposed of or conscripted into another service as soldiers or comfort women. As

Continue reading Hard Times

Sex as a Career?

Women have been counselled to become sex workers

A Tumblr image

The concept of a woman offering sex for money and other favours is generally thought of as the world’s oldest profession and as far as we know, there has never been a time in human history where this has not occurred.

Today in many countries despite the cries of some moralists, what many regard as prostitution has been legalised in many countries. Yet when we look at many marriages, they are often little more than agreements validating sex for money.

Yet moralists around the world even though they may be prostituting themselves condemn the activity of the women who make themselves available to men,

Continue reading Sex as a Career?

Osho on Sex Ed for Kids

Tell it the way it is

Periodically in the media this week, discussions about sex education for children re-emerge. Those who consider themselves enlightened want to tell kids the facts of life as they really are while the moral opposition wants kids to remain forever in ignorance until that time comes when they fumble in the dark and are left suffering various forms of anxiety.

Statistics, these prove that children who are well educated about sex are more likely to put off sex until they are older and practice safe sex, they are also much less likely to get pregnant so it seems really strange that the moralists want to raise their kids in ignorance and expose them to unwanted

Continue reading Osho on Sex Ed for Kids

Male Continence

The importance of saving your sperm

John Humphrey Noyes came up with the idea of Male Continence back in the 1840’s as a means of preventing unwanted conception, without injury to either husband or wife and ended up with some 250 people living a communal lifestyle where all men and women of the community were married to each other which stirred up a lot of negative criticism at the time which one would expect as the US is a fairly puritanical country.

However he had a great many enquiries from intelligent men and women in ordinary married life seeking information about Male Continence after seeing and suffering the miseries of involuntary propagation which at the time was remarkable for its

Continue reading Male Continence

Sponges

Feminine Hygiene

When looked after carefully, natural sponges are a safe and clean alternative to tampons. But unlike tampons, they can be reused, may last for years and of course natural sea sponges are better than synthetic sponges. Do not use coloured sponges as the chemicals in the dye may have an unpleasant or uncomfortable reaction.

In term of use and practicality, natural sea sponges can be trimmed to size and absorb more than synthetic ones but as they are soft, they will conform to the shape of your vaginal cavity. If a sponge is too big, it will be difficult to insert and won’t absorb any more than a smaller one. If a sponge is too small, it may

Continue reading Sponges

Sacred Sexuality

Into the Realm of Bliss and Wholeness with Sacred Sexuality

Sex Art from Khajuraho, India

Sacred sexuality has had a great deal of press in recent years however with new avenues of research and new understandings, these ideas are spreading within the wider community. There are those who continue to disparage this work, but they are an increasing minority.

It is hoped that the casual reader may get that sexuality has nothing to do with morals or social rules, it is more to do with a divine connection which occurs in the hearts of lovers and is fuelled by real intimacy and sex is only a part of that conversation.

Sacred sexuality is not about having more

Continue reading Sacred Sexuality