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A Means to Perpetuate or Species
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institution we can't disparage Before getting married, I used to think marriage would be all rosy and make my life much better. In reality, it is you who decides to make your life better. To expect your spouse to magically make everything okay is an unfair expectation, after all; like you they have flaws and weaknesses. Marriage is not a band-aid fix to your problems, marriage is helping each other by, standing by one another and navigating life together. There are various forms of fantasy in relation to getting married: I want one of those marriages where after 20 years we are still crazy in love, to still cuddle and kiss on the couch, to have continuous excitement and adventure. Some factoids:
She says: I know it's hard to wait. I know it's so hard to face rejection after rejection, the fear of never finding the right guy. But the right guy is worth waiting for. Stop settling for guys who don't wholeheartedly follow Jesus. Stop dating guys who are 'good' but don't follow Jesus, who do not bring you closer to Him because if a guy doesn't follow Jesus, he cannot love you right.
Some can have a great marriage as long as they don't live together, share
finances, or raise children but marriage is a partnership. Two can never become
one, yet they must be able to harmonise. To do this they need to cultivate an
inner sweetness. |
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