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Advice from a big breasted girl
So I learned that by having big boobs, I had to learn to deal with people and the social reactivity to girls like myself. All the jibes, comments and sometimes insults rolled by like water off a ducks back. The biggest problem is really carrying all that weight and finding clothes to wear. All that weight can be tiresome and I got brave enough to go to a gym which helped to strengthen my back muscles and hopefully regular exercise will help to maintain my posture. Some of my girlfriends are even bigger than me and it's really nice getting together to talk about our experiences. Sometimes we find relief going topless and exercising, and in some ways being topless is preferable to being all strapped up and uncomfortable because there's a kind of nice rhythm to the way my boobs bounce and sway which gives me more physical freedom. A few times I've been brave enough to go braless to nightclubs which is great because it's all about having sexy fun anyhow. In that atmosphere where everyone is turned on and the music turned up its all somehow easier and I'm not bothered by the odd groper or my tits sometimes swinging free of my dress. I also had lots of offers to do porn and other ways of sex for money, but I'm not really into that. Nevertheless sex is fun and so many guys have a fantasy of fucking between my boobs. Every time I change boyfriends I generally have to indulge them on that one, but the trade-off is usually a good back rub. One of the other great things I've discovered is boob massage. I read about it a couple of years ago on a website that I think might related to this one which is why I've sent you this story. Anyhow, the mother of one of my friends died after breast cancer which prompted me to do the research so I've massaged my boobs a couple of times a week since then and I taught some of my boyfriends how to do it to me which is really nice. If I was to give any advice to other girls with big boobs, the first thing is don't give a shit about what anyone else thinks says or does. You really have to own yourself, own your boobs and be responsible otherwise you're just gonna get used and you'll have a shitty life. Blessings, Pamela Macnaughtan |
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the first thing about big boobs is that everyone notices and a whole lot of
people stare. As a 10-year-old they were a curiosity and then a nuisance because
they got in the way of sport and of course I had to start wearing bras which are
an uncomfortable feature of life that have yet to be totally comfortable with.